Undoing the Damage of Pornography

I am sorry, but this post will deal with specifically male problems. Forgive me ladies, but I am also a man, and so in order to be completely transparent, I must be who I am, and that is a man. But this should not bar you from reading on, because there are many gems throughout… Continue reading Undoing the Damage of Pornography

Forgiveness: Liberate yourself, not someone else

It feels good to hate. It’s comforting. Comforting in the way that you can blame someone for all your problems. You can blame someone for the ways that you messed up, and are problematic and insufficient. Hate turns things into simple and unchanging outcomes.   “Because of him/her, I am this, and will be like… Continue reading Forgiveness: Liberate yourself, not someone else