These past couple of months have been very trans-formative for me.
- I got to a relatively high level with Muay Thai and Jiu Jitsu.
- I read so many great books(The Rational Male, Bachelor Pad Economics, Preventative Medicine, Mode One)
- Gotten stronger than ever before (Bench Press, Squat, and Deadleft> 225lbs)
Being a man is something that I have always thought about, something that I have always quarreled with, something that I have always wanted to become. But there was something fundamentally wrong with me that was preventing me to become one, and I had no idea, and the sad part is, most men do not either.
SOCIETY HAS LIED TO US
Ever since I was a kid, I have been told so many things about boys and girls, whether it be from my teachers, educational videos, or just pop culture that has me believe a narrative that was a lie. And it thwarted what I believed a man should be, and no matter how hard I tried to go after this image that I had, I never felt like it was right, because it was all a lie.
ALL SEXES ARE EQUAL.
ALL SEXES ARE DIFFERENT, BUT SHOULD BE TREATED EQUALLY.
Feminism started out as something great, but today, it has become a large mechanism of corruption, and political hypocrisy.
The idea that “all sexes are equal” stemmed from the great and true idea that “sexes should be treated equally”. Which was true, people should be treated and respected like people, regardless of gender, race, or creed. However, as time passed, the pendulum began to swing to far in one direction, and now we have the radicalization of the feminist movement that has infected society today.
The sexes are not equal. Men are specifically good at some things that women are not. Women are specifically good at somethings that men are not.
The genders do not have the same amount of sex drive. I do not know where you are reading this from, but in America, people want you to believe that women are just as horny as men. Wrong. Why? One Word. Testosterone.
Testosterone is the chemical that is responsible for sexual arousal and general sex drive.
Men, on average, produce anywhere from 4-70 times more Testosterone than women. (most produce about 30 times more)
One of the biggest reflections that female bodybuilders give after going on a steroid cycle is the increase in their sex drive, and they lament on what it must feel like to be a man, and always have that level of testosterone in a person.
LIE #2 WOMEN ARE THE ROMANTICS
Think of every romantic story ever written. They were written by men.
CORRECTION- MEN AND WOMEN ARE ROMANTIC IN DIFFERENT WAYS
If given the choice between Romantic Love or Security, most men would choose the Romantic Love, and most women would choose security. I do not think that there is anything wrong with this, but because of our society, we are told that women are the hopeless romantics, and men are the sexist pigs.
In reality, men and women choose their prospective choices simply because of the fact that it is in their nature.
When you go back to when humans first came into existence, women needed a man to take care of them, because whence they got pregnant, they were largely incapacitated, and depended on their partner to provide for them. If you want more in depth information, I highly recommend a book called Sapiens by Yuval Noah Harari.
And so, a woman had to be able to vet through the male suitors, and find the alpha male that would be able to defend her if the giant caveman next door decided that he wanted to rape her(bluntly put). This is why women are hypergamous.
Which is also the cause of the phenomenon known as War Brides. When tribes or cities were conquered, and wives were often stolen from their husbands, and their husbands were often massacred, the wives, over time, develop a connection of love between their captors. These are all survival strategies. If women were like men, and they just fought to kill their captors, then our genetic material would have never survived.
Men and women have a base set of natural reproductive strategies that set a precedence to how they will act accordingly. They key distinction to this is that men and women, through practice, teaching, and self-improvement, can overcome any of these natural tendencies that they deem to be immoral.
Now as a man, what does this mean for me?
A couple of things, first, I am going to make this into another blog post, because I did not think that I was going to be writing for so long, so second, I will give you guys a preview of what I will write, and stay tuned for Friday’s post for the continuation.
I have discovered a introductory doctrine on how to be a man, and what it means to be one.
And this regards;
- How a man should be around other men.
- What a man should be capable of doing.
- How a man should be around women.
- What a man should focus on.
- And how a man should be around a women that he wants.
As you can see, I have given myself a lot to talk about, so look forward to friday’s post.
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